This may come as a surprise to many but I’m a Gen Y (don’t hold it against me) and the last thing you would expect to hear from a Gen Y person is criticism of Social Media. But I’m not your typical Gen Y person
Social Media has made us lazy… It’s removed the confidence of many people… It’s changed how we live our lives every day… It’s caused many problems in peoples lives, but also brought many closer together.
Like anything, it has it’s pro’s and con’s…
I know there are some Social Media Fanatics who when reading this will take offense and want to defend it. But let me say, I’m not taking a shot at you… I’m revealing a problem that faces us today (especially in business)
We can’t eat, go shopping or sleep without letting someone else know. Facebook has turned many into attention seeking madmen who can’t make a decision without getting validation from the 3000+ friends they have (of which they probably only speak to 30)
With more than 200 commonly used Social Networking sites available today it’s quite obvious that Social Media & Networking sites are here to stay. That’s OK, but what damage is it causing…
From a business perspective… I see many who use Facebook for their business. Some go about it the right way and some are way off track in their marketing message.
Business owners have become lazy… What do I see?
- Plugging your product on Facebook every day to your whole list (assuming they want to know about it)
- Tagging yourself in other peoples posts and giving yourself a plug at the same time (some call this strategic marketing) but when done poorly is just rude!
- Losing touch with your prospects or clients emotions
My point is this!
The heart has gone out of business. It’s not about how many friends you have, how many likes you have, how many people follow you on twitter or other sites…
There was once a time when you could honestly say ‘I have good friends, best friends etc
But the true value and meaning of friendships has been lost. No longer are clients and prospects treated with honour, respect and compassion. Instead we dream up a product and then ‘do the hard sell’ to our thousands of people on our mailing list or fan page.
The quality and true nature of relationships is going. The heart of business is weakening…
People make decisions based on emotion.
Are your marketing efforts truly addressing the emotions of each individual prospect or client… Or are you doing the ’1 size fits all’ approach just to make money!
Josh